Hi! 
Hannah Asked…
I have a question, what is the proper audience etiquette when you go see a ballet or an opera? When do you clap? Is whistling/whooping ever socially acceptable?
Thanks!
Hannah
THE WIFE Answered…
Hannah,
Thank you so much for your email! First off, how exciting to attend the Opera or Ballet! It’s one of my favorite reasons to get all dressed up. To be able to enjoy a performers exquisite operatic voice or see the beautiful Pilate’s and twirls of a talented dancer.
With that being said… Going to the Opera and Ballet is something you should always dress up for. Women should be in Cocktail Dresses and Men Business Attire (Button Down Collard Shirts and Slacks.) “Like the elegant decor of The Plaza, the splendor of a theatre deserves an audience with attire to match – and I’ve always been one for Matching.” – Kate Spade. Always bring a sweater or cardigan as Theaters and Opera Houses can get quite chilly. When you arrive check heavy Winter coats at the coat check
I suggest reading a synopsis of the performance before attending, so you can fully understand and appreciate what you are about to see on stage. For instance, in ballets there is not speaking, but interpreting through dance. And many Operas are in another language (although some opera houses provide subtitles above the stage.)
I always encourage Children to be involved in Arts and Culture, But only bring those who will be able to sit through a lengthy performance quietly (sometimes lasting up to 2 or 3 hours.) Parents are the best judge of character, as you know your child best.
Always always be on time. Performances always begin promptly. Allow enough time for traffic and parking. If you do arrive late, you will not be admitted until an appropriate interval or intermission. ( This happen to me at the Ballet Performance of Don Quixote in Paris and we had to watch the first half from the very back steps of the balcony, then during intermission we were properly seated in our purchased seats. Lesson Learned!)
During the Performance Respect those around you by turning off or silencing your cell phones. This means absolutely no texting, as the bright screen can be distracting to those around you. Take photos during a performance is prohibited, as this can be distracting to the performers. Try not to talk or whisper to the person next to you. Also food or drink are never allowed in the theatre or opera house. Avoid opening anything with a loud wrapper like gum or mints, or rummaging through your purse.
If your not sure when to applaud follow the lead of the rest of the audience. If you are moved at the end of the Entire Performance you should stand to show your gratitude with a standing ovation. I would Avoid Whooping, But Shouting Bravo for Men and Brava for the Women is an old tradition when attending the Opera!
Enjoy your Time at the Ballet or Opera!
THE WIFE
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